I have about more than 20 invitations to weddings and engagements waiting inside my FB upcoming events calendar.
Most of them are from childhood friends, high school & college classmates. In other words, they're all about my age. Some of them are marrying someone in our own circle of friends, as some to someone they barely even knew.
You see when we start working, we found someone new, too. And when we realize the chemistry that bonds, within just a few simple family meetings and agreements between two pacts, wedding bells's the result to something special they agreed upon.
But there's something I could not bring myself to understand. It's how they know that they've met the right one. What if...oh I don't mean it the wrong way, but what if that someone turned out wrong? Ops, I guess I meant it the wrong way.
What if something happen one day and one of us regret and blame the marriage instead?
What if we finally realize that what both of us wanted was absolutely different and the marriage's stopping us to achieve them?
What if we found out that the chemistry that once shared suddenly gone?
There are lots of 'What if's to restrain me from saying I'd trust someone to marry him without hesitation.
These 'What if's are the questions that got tangled to one another that makes untangling them seems so impossible.
Even if one is settled, there's another 'What if' coming up next.
I really just can't stop thinking, on how the hell they knew they were marrying the right person?